The New Mom With Her Baby
•31 years after
There is good news for women who think age is a barrier to conception.
A woman said to be 60 has just been delivered of a baby at a Lagos hospital. according to a report n Nation Newspaper
For 31 years, Mrs Omolara Irurhe was globetrotting not for pleasure
but in search of a child. She was a guest in the best hospitals.
But in 2010, her journey ended in the most unlikely hospital and
country when she began an Invitro Fertilization (IVF) treatment at the
St. Ives Hospital in Lagos. On Monday, what began as a seed hope four
years ago culminated in the delievery of a bouncing baby girl.
Mrs. Irurhe becomes the oldest IVF mother in Africa. The global
recognition for oldest IVF delivery goes to Rajo Deri Lohan, an Indian
who in 2008 was delivered of a baby at 69 years.
The IVF Unit at St. Ives Hospital successfully aided the conception
and delivery of the baby and has now equaled the United Kingdom’s record
of IVF age delivery.
The team of doctors at the hospital was led by the Chief Medical
Director, Dr. Tunde Okewale, who expressed joy at the successful
delivery. Okewale said the physical condition of the mother – and not
just the age – is a major factor that determines the success of
conception and delivery through IVF.
“We treat only after strict medical check of couples. For us, age is
not important in our decision to take her on; what was important is the
physical condition of the mother. Older women generally make better
patients in our experience,” Okewale said.
When The Nation spoke to the new mother, she was full of
enthusiasm and joy over her new baby. She said what kept her going after
many years of childlessness was faith in God and a belief in herself.
Mrs. Irurhe said she had tried to have a baby for many years and had
gone to many hospitals both within and outside the country for a
solution to her childlessness. But in 2010, her journey came to an end
when she was introduced to St. Ives Hospital and the treatment began.
“I believe we should not limit God and what the doctors can do in
this modern age. I believe this is the appointed time. I was very
hopeful throughout the years I was childless and I remained focused on
God. We went to many hospitals but we didn’t give up,” she said.
The joyful mother said her husband’s Catholic faith prevented him
from marrying a second wife as the two of them put their faith in God.
“We didn’t have much pressure, even though our marriage is cross
cultural –I am Yoruba; my husband is Edo- but we remained hopeful,” she
said.
Desmond Adekunle Irurhe was elated at the birth of his baby. When
asked if she supported his wife going for the IVF he replied: “ I
supported her throughout because my wife was dogged and she believed in
herself. When I saw her faith, I had no choice but to go with her. She
kept telling me she would have her child”.
The husband said even though there was some pressures, it wasn’t too
much. “I wasn’t thinking of another wife. I came from a monogamous
family and I decided she is all I will have. The family was
understanding too and we fought together to get this baby.”
Irurhe praised the medical team at the hospital, saying they made
everything easy for them. “ The hospital didn’t give us any problem,
they were very helpful and we thank them for the successful delivery.”
With the successful delivery, hope rises for older women who may want
to go the way of IVF in child conception. In Nigeria, the cost of the
IVF treatment varies but from available statistics, the most expensive
treatment is under N2million. The Iruhres paid less than N1 million for
their successful treatment.
“I will advise couples who are trying to get a baby to try the IVF.
My case has rekindled hope for the barren woman. I will say the couple
should relax and take it as it comes, they will surely smile,” the
mother said.
Having a first child at the age of 60 years may not be the norm but
for the mother, it is an experience she does not mind going through
again. “ I don’t know if I will have another baby, but if the doctors
say I can, I will try it,” she said, smilling.
Mrs. Omolara Irurhe: We have tried for many years to have a baby and
after we failed to get a baby naturally we opted for the IVF. We had
gone to many hospitals before here but the treatments that we received
didn’t work. We came in contact with this hospital in 2010 before we
delivered this baby.
“I give glory to God, we kept our faith in God, we believe this is God’s appointed time. |
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