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Monday, 21 July 2014

PHOTOS: Saneie Masilela, 9, Marries Helen Shabangu, 53 Years His senior, For The Second Time



The duo first married one year ago, but they decided to follow through with South African traditions which involves a second ceremony to make the marriage official


A couple in South Africa have taken the May-December relationship paradigm to the extreme by wedding for a second time – despite the 53-year age gap separating them.

But the union between Saneie Masilela, 9, and Helen Shabangu, 62, is not a marriage in the true sense of the word; the pair tied the knot in a ritual aimed at pleasing their ancestors.



Saneie, from Tshwane, became one of the world’s youngest grooms last year when the then-eight-year-old married a 61-year-old Helen at his home.

Last year the bride and groom tied the knot after Saneie claimed he had been told by his dead ancestors to wed and his family took the message from the heavens  very seriously


He claimed he had been told by his ancestors to form a union with the mother-of-five, who is already married to Alfred Shabangu, 67.

However, in spite of his tender age, Saneie’s family acquiesced to the marriage, gifting £500 to the bride and a further £1,000 for the wedding day itself.

Tradition states that a couple should declare their vows in both their homes so, this year, Saneie and Helen partook in another ceremony at the bride’s house in Ximhungwe, in Mpumalanga, South Africa.


There was an international outcry the first time the pair wed, but the couple are married only symbolically and do not live together or have sexual relations.

Saneie’s mother Patience told Buzzfeed: “I know it’s what the ancestors wanted.

“If we hadn’t done what my son had asked, then something bad would have happened in the family.”

And Saneie said: "I’m happy that I married Helen, but I will go to school and study hard. When I’m older, I will marry a lady my own age.’’


See more photos below



Helen's husband of 30 years, Alfred Shabangu, 66, (right) and their five children, aged between 38 and 28, all attended the ceremony

Sanele's 47-year-old mum, Patience Masilela, insists that the marriage is simply symbolic and not legally binding and that her son is very happy about the arrangement



The young groom said he hoped to have a proper wedding to a woman his own age when he was older
The groom's mother (right) strongly believes that the duos' unity is a necessity and a 'calling from the ancestors', saying: 'If we hadn't done what my son had asked then something bad would have happened in the family'

Nine-year-old schoolboy, Saneie Masilela  and his 62-year-old bride Helen Shabangu, wore traditional attire as they renewed their wedding vows in South Africa


Sanele and his bride did not sign a marriage certificate and do not have to live together. Both have gone back to their normal lives






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